"Just Human!!! "

 

Teen's gone and twenty has begun. It seems that everything became complicated during this shift. Life was much easier in the past years when I was a girl with all those teenage curiosities and adrenaline rushes. Knowing more about the society and it's so called "normal norms" is kind of suffocating. Being a girl, becoming a woman, this journey is full of so many bitter surprises. It's really painful to see all the wonderful women around me sacrificing their pleasures to make others life easier. This scares me the most. Aging as a woman makes me feel like entering a black hole where you will be sucked by gravity. All the forces pulling me tightly and bursting me into ashes. It seems that as a woman the most difficult task is" being me" in every situation. The whole world wants us to be a typical lady who cooks well, who dresses well, who is calm and polite, who possess all the so called "feminine qualities".It's heartbreaking when excluded from something challenging because of being a girl. When a girl tries to break all these shackles of exclusion and raise voice against being treated unequal she is called arrogant, overacting, feminist and so on. I really don't know what is so funny and negative in being a feminist. The term feminist doesn't represent "anti-men".Feminism is a spark and fire in the minds of many women who tries to hold their head upright in every situation and who believes that they are capable of anything. The concept of feminism wouldn't have begun if everyone understood the meaning of humanism. It's the 21st century! Let's make a world where everyone is treated as human, not men, not women, not transgender, not gay, not lesbian, "just human! ".